Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus




Hello, this is my third post and I want to talk about Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Have you ever heard about that? Why men are from Mars and Women are from Venus? Are men from the planet Mars? And are women from the planet Venus? If you think it’s true, It means men and women are not human. Hehehe, it’s impossible. That is just a term to make people understand if men and women are different. The term is the title of a famous book by John Gray. I will talk about the content of the book a little. There is the reason why Men are from mars and Women are from Venus.

But, before we talk about that, I have a history about men and women. Once upon a time, there were two different beings in this universe, they were called Men and Women. Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Suddenly, they were sent to earth and when they arrived on the eart, they got an amnesia. They lost all the memori they have and they forget if they were from different planets. That is the reason why they always fight each other. The End. Don’t mention it to much, it’s just a joke. Hehehe :)

Back to the topic, what is the reason why Men are from mars and Women are from Venus. The important thing you should to remember that men and women have different characteristic. Men and women need to understand each other and stop expecting each other to act and feel the way they want. Why?

First, Men is a Mister Fix-It and Women is Home Improvement Committee. It means men like if their abilities are recognized and valued, and hate if they are insulted or ignored. Also men want to work alone, and solve their problem quickly and alone. They want to showed up if they can solve their problem by themselves. Different from man, women love if their feelings to be recognized and valued, and hate if they are ignored. Women also want to work together, and solve their problem through interactive communication with each other.

Second, Men Go to Their Caves and Women Talk.  It means when men and women have a difficult problems, they have different ways to solved it.  Men become non-communicative, so they can think and find the best way to help themselves. Men want to show their ability to solve problems without interference. If  women, they become communicative so people around her can find out the best way to help her. Women like to show their feelings by being allowed people to solve the problems together.

There is still many another topic from the book, but it to much if i discuss all of them. So I just discuss two topics. I hope it can inspire you and can give a lesson to understand your lover. If you and your lover understand each other, your relationship can ever lasting forever.

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